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Wednesday, April 4, 2012

MS touches lives everywhere.

WoodsAP Photo/Amy SancettaTiger Woods, shown in 1995 with his dad Earl, is one of Earl's four children. Since their father's death in 2006, the others have not heard from Tiger.
In San Jose, Calif., this week, Kevin Woods will sit in his wheelchair a few feet from his television, watching his half-brother play the Masters. He has to. He can't see otherwise.
Can't stand much lately, either. Can barely use his left arm at all. He can feel his hands and feet going a little more numb every day. Kevin was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis in 2009, and it's not getting better.

"I'd say 60 to 70 percent worse now," says Kevin's brother, Earl Woods Jr. "He's not going to be able to keep his house much longer."

All three men had the same father, Earl Woods, but Earl Jr. says they haven't heard from Tiger since they buried Earl's ashes in Kansas six years ago.

"I leave messages," Earl Jr. says. "I leave updates on Kevin, but for whatever reason I don't get a response. … Kevin loves Tiger. A call from Tiger would really pump Kevin up. When he doesn't call, it just makes him feel worse."

Earl Jr., Kevin and sister Royce are the children of Earl Woods and Barbara Gary, of Kansas. They're 20, 18 and 17 years older than Tiger, who is the offspring of Earl's second marriage, to Kultida Punsawad. Though they lived in different houses, the four kids visited often and say they remained close until Tiger turned "about 15 or 16," Earl Jr. says. "But the more universal Tiger got, the less we heard from him."

Royce, who also lives in San Jose, stayed close with Tiger during his two years in college, fixing him meals and doing his laundry. In thanks, Tiger bought her a house. But since the funeral, none of them have been able to contact him.

"I would live in a shack," Royce told author Tom Callahan for his 2010 book "His Father's Son," "literally a shack, if I could have my relationship with my brother back."

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Since his MS diagnosis, Kevin Woods has had to quit his job and is in danger of losing his home.
When contacted regarding Kevin now, Royce would only say, "He has an illness and we're dealing with it the best we can."
The three have stayed almost entirely out of public view. None of the three have written a book, and they are rarely quoted.

"We haven't asked Tiger for a dime," says Earl Jr., who lives in Phoenix. "Not even tickets to a tournament. But Kevin's losing his home. He needs a caregiver and he can't have a caregiver and keep his home at the same time. And we can't do that, we don't have the means. He can't move into Royce's house because of the stairs. And he's got a dog.

"Nobody's asking for money here, but [a caregiver] really would be nice for Kevin. It would make Kevin comfortable. He wouldn't have to leave his house. … But we'd at least like to be able to find out how Tiger is, to find out if he's OK, and to let him know if we're OK."

A spokesman for Tiger said that he's preparing for the Masters and wouldn't be returning my call to talk about it.

Tiger is not without a heart. His Tiger Woods Foundation has reached millions of young people around the world. But there has clearly been a falling out between Tiger and his half-siblings, and nobody seems to know what caused it. Tiger is close with Earl Jr.'s daughter, Cheyenne Woods, who attends Wake Forest and won the 2011 ACC women's golf championship.

"Tiger had Cheyenne down to Florida for three days to spend Thanksgiving on his boat," Earl Jr. says. "I asked her [afterward], 'Did he ask about us?' She said, 'No.'"

Royce is Kevin's caretaker now, taking him to his appointments and seeing to him. She also tended to Earl Sr. in his last years as he fought pancreatic cancer, even moving into his house in December 2005.

Since his diagnosis, the 52-year-old Kevin hasn't been able to work. MS is a genetic disease that often comes on later in life. One of Kevin's cousins also got it, in his mid-40s.

"We see him suffering," says Barbara Gary Woods, 78, who lives in Modesto, Calif. "He can hardly walk. Can't hardly hold things. … I'm very disappointed in Tiger. Before he got all famous, they were in touch a lot."

The wall that's up between Tiger and Kevin burns Earl Jr.

"I'd like to [slap] Tiger, wake him up," he says. "I'd like to say, 'Don't come knocking on the door when you need a bone-marrow transplant.' To see this is the response we get? Maybe when you see the world like he does, you don't see what other people are going through. But, seriously? You've got problems with your knee? That's nothing compared to what Kevin is going through. Nothing."

I can't help wondering what things would be like if their dad were still alive.
"A lot different," insists Earl Jr., who looks a lot like his father. "My dad was a bonding agent. He encouraged us to keep in touch, protect each other, circle the wagons."
For Kevin's part, he tells his siblings that Tiger must be busy. He has not asked Tiger for anything and has not tried to contact him. He remains a Tiger fan and will have his face close to the TV as Tiger attempts to continue his comeback at Augusta.

Of course, some comebacks are harder than others.

Pass along!

"To get something you never had, you have to do something you never did" When God takes something from your grasp. He's not punishing you, but merely opening your hands to receive something better. Concentrate on this sentence. "The will of God will never take you where the Grace of God will not protect you." Something good will happen to you today, something that you have been waiting to hear. Please do not break. Just 27 Words, 'God our Father , walk through my house and take away all my worries and illnesses and please watch over and heal my family in your name, Amen.' This prayer is so powerful. Pass this to 12 people including me. A blessing is coming to you in form of a new job, a house, marriage or financially. Do not break or ask questions.. This is a test. Does God come first in your life? If so, stop what your doing & send it to 12 people now. Watch what He does


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Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Med's. Are they working?

Everyday I take Baclofen, Gabapentin, Tramadol,Provigil,Warfarin, Pravastin, Zodipen,Low Dose Naltraxen. All over the course of the day. Has anyone on this blog experienced slowly weening themselves off any of these drugs? Some days I feel that I would be better off and more clear headed if I could reduce of eliminate all these poisons. Some people with full time jobs don't work as hard as I do medicating. lol

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Massage as a stress reliver.

Went to a new massage therapist this morning bright and early. I haven't indulged myself with this pleasurable experience for almost 2 years. My body, the muscles, joints and skin all feel so reinvigorated. Why I have deprived myself this relief  I don't know, just so frugal is my only excuse. For anyone that is reading , take my advice and treat yourself to this stress reducer at least 1 time per month. You will be glad you did. By the way it was only $70 for a hour. Insurance should cover but mine doesn't.

Saturday, March 24, 2012

The Success Cycle

You Can Sell Anything With This System
By Roger Cawiezell, CLU, CHFC
With an enviable track record in sales any beginner or continuing professional salesman would want to emulate, Roger Cawiezell has written The Success Cycle to muster in one book the formulas that make for endurance, psychological balance and continuing growth in one of the most competitive fields in business.
One of the best things that Cawiezell has done over the forty years as a professional in the insurance industry had been to help develop young salespeople become top performers and leaders in their communities. He has given back what he had been given: as a youth he had an excellent work ethic that blossomed under the guidance of adopted mentors. At a very early age, he intuitively knew what it took to be a successful entrepreneur. And he knows that mastery in the business of sales will benefit personal life as well. Issues on business etiquette and how morality makes for a stronger and resilient mindset in the ups and downs of the market are also discussed. The book comes with helpful models and diagrams that outline the major points and flows of Cawiezell’s business acumen. Learning and mastering the 10 areas of The Success Cycle put the author within the top 1% of sales people within two years of mastering it.

Cawiezell’s message in The Success Cycle is that with learning and mastering a proven system of sales and developing the “habits” of winning salespeople, one can literally make it to the top in any area of sales. From the mastery of financial, communication, and technical aspects of marketing, to the almost spiritual knack of establishing a quick and lasting bond with customers, Cawiezell gives this book his all as he has steadfastly done through his successful years in the field. thesuccesscycletoday.com

An absolute must read for those who desire a track to run on in business, Roger Cawiezell’s The Success Cycle will help you stay in the game and ultimately win it!

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

The Success Cycle

Within a few hours of reading this book, the novice or veteran sales person will learn how to employ a sales system that will take them to the level of success enjoyed by Top Sales Professionals. The Success Cycle will reveal a proven system for sales success in any and every type of sales marketing. By learning and mastering each of the 10 areas of The Success Cycle, sales success can be literally guaranteed. This system is the key to long term sales success. Absolutely a must read for those who desire a track to run on. Cawiezell reveals how this system put him in the top 1% of sales people within 2 years of mastering it. Cawiezell’s philosophy, “The situation is the boss and the results are the judge”. “In order to win the game you have to be in the game”. The Success Cycle will keep you in the game so you can ultimately win the game! The reader will have a ready resource to refer to over and over again and will understand the 5 areas needed to grow success. These are all of the secrets of proven winners! This system teaches you how to get through the following curves: the knowledge curve, the skills curve, the confidence curve, the experience curve, and ultimately enjoy the success curve. thesuccesscycletoday.com